Faith in the Waiting — When God’s Ways Don't Make Sense (Matthew 11:1–19)

Faith in the Waiting — When God’s Ways Don't Make Sense (Matthew 11:1–19)

Last week, we closed Matthew 10 by looking at “The Cost and the Crown.” Jesus reminded us that discipleship carries a price — but it also holds an eternal reward. He divides to reveal our true allegiance, He demands us to refine our devotion, and He reminds us that nothing done for Him, no matter how small, is ever wasted.

But when we follow Christ closely, when we take up His mission, the target on our back often grows larger. The enemy works harder to discourage, distract, and defeat us. And sometimes, when life feels unfair and God’s ways don’t make sense, faith must learn to wait.

In Matthew 11:1–19, Jesus meets His cousin John the Baptist — the great forerunner of the Messiah — not in the wilderness but in the darkness of a prison cell. John, once the bold voice crying in the desert, now sends a question: “Are you the one who is to come, or should we look for another?” It’s a moment of honesty, uncertainty, and deep faith under pressure.

This passage reminds us that God’s ways often confuse us, but they never fail us. Even when we don’t understand His timing or His methods, we can trust His wisdom, His heart, and His truth.

1. When Doubt Meets Devotion — Faith That Waits in the Dark (vv. 1–6)

Faith is not the absence of doubt — it’s the decision to trust Jesus in the middle of uncertainty.

John the Baptist, once proclaiming Jesus as “the Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world,” now sits in Herod’s prison, wrestling with the silence of heaven. He had faithfully prepared the way for the Messiah, yet now he’s left wondering if the Messiah will come through for him.

Was John doubting because he feared death? Or because he expected Jesus to overthrow Rome or bring judgment on Israel’s oppressors? Either way, his expectations of how God should act collided with how God was acting.

Many of us know that place. We pray, serve, and obey — yet when life doesn’t go according to plan, we start asking, “Lord, are You really who You say You are?”

But Jesus doesn’t rebuke John for his question. Instead, He sends reassurance: “Go and tell John what you hear and see — the blind receive their sight, the lame walk, lepers are cleansed, the deaf hear, the dead are raised, and the poor have good news preached to them.”

In other words: John, the plan is still on track. Prophecy is being fulfilled. God’s Kingdom is moving forward — even if you can’t see it from your cell.

Faith in the waiting means trusting that Jesus is still at work, even when we can’t see the full picture. Like a traveler in a dark tunnel, we hold steady to the track, knowing the Engineer knows where we’re going.

Key Scripture:

  • Isaiah 55:8–9 — “My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways.”
  • Hebrews 11:1 — “Faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.”
  • Psalm 27:14 — “Wait for the Lord; be strong, and let your heart take courage.”

2. When Greatness Looks Different (vv. 7–15)

After John’s disciples leave, Jesus turns to the crowd and defends John’s faith. He doesn’t scold him — He honors him. “Among those born of women, there has not risen anyone greater than John the Baptist.”

Greatness, Jesus says, doesn’t come from fame, wealth, or comfort. It comes from obedience.

In the world’s eyes, John was a failure — a prophet in rags, imprisoned and forgotten. But in heaven’s eyes, John was faithful. He stood firm when others bent to cultural winds. He spoke truth when it cost him everything.

Jesus contrasts John with a “reed shaken by the wind” — the image of a person swayed by popularity or fear. John wasn’t like that. He was like an oak tree, unbending, rooted in conviction.

Culture defines greatness by visibility. God defines greatness by humility. True greatness is measured not by how many people applaud us but by how faithfully we serve when no one’s watching.

John’s role as the forerunner — the “Elijah who was to come” — marked the turning point in God’s plan of redemption. Yet Jesus adds a surprising twist: “He who is least in the kingdom of heaven is greater than he.” The new covenant flips everything upside down. Every believer who has received the Spirit is invited into a greatness that flows from grace, not performance.

Key Scripture:

  • Micah 6:8 — “Do justice, love kindness, and walk humbly with your God.”
  • Matthew 23:11 — “The greatest among you shall be your servant.”
  • John 3:30 — “He must increase, but I must decrease.”

True greatness in God’s Kingdom is not about rising higher — it’s about kneeling lower.

3. When the Music Doesn’t Match (vv. 16–19)

Finally, Jesus turns to “this generation” — those who rejected both John and Himself. He compares them to children in the marketplace who refuse to join in either a wedding dance or a funeral song.

“We played the flute, and you did not dance; we sang a dirge, and you did not mourn.”

The crowd rejected John because he was too strict and rejected Jesus because He was too gracious. John’s call to repentance sounded too somber; Jesus’ table fellowship looked too joyful. No matter what God did, the people refused to respond.

The same pattern still exists today. Our culture demands that God fit its tune. We want grace without holiness, or truth without compassion. We want a Messiah who dances to our rhythm — not one who calls us to dance to His.

But Jesus ends with a profound statement: “Wisdom is justified by her deeds.” In other words, the results of God’s ways will prove themselves right in the end. When the music doesn’t match our expectations, our faith must still follow His rhythm.

Key Scripture:

  • Romans 12:2 — “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind.”
  • Proverbs 9:10 — “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.”
  • James 3:17 — “The wisdom from above is pure, peaceable, gentle, full of mercy and good fruits.”

Faithful obedience always harmonizes with heaven, even when it sounds offbeat to the world.

Conclusion: Trusting the Wisdom of God in the Waiting

Matthew 11:1–19 reminds us that even the strongest believers can wrestle with doubt. John the Baptist’s faith was real — but it was also tested. And in that testing, Jesus didn’t condemn him; He comforted him.

When faith feels uncertain, Jesus whispers, “Look at what I’m doing.” When greatness feels unseen, He reminds us that obedience is the true measure of success. And when the world refuses to listen, He invites us to keep dancing to His tune — steady, faithful, and wise.

God’s Kingdom doesn’t operate by human logic. It confuses the proud, comforts the humble, and calls us all to trust His wisdom over our understanding.

So when the waiting feels long, when the music doesn’t seem to match, and when life doesn’t go as planned — hold on. The same Jesus who opened blind eyes and raised the dead is still at work in your story.

Faith waits. Faith serves. Faith dances to God’s rhythm.

Let us be people who wait patiently, walk humbly, and live boldly — proving by our lives that wisdom is justified by her deeds.

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